Happy Mother's Day Mom!
I don't know about all of you out there, but I think my mom's pretty cool. Actually, I do know what you all think, because I am told often how cool my mom is.
She's one of the smartest ladies I know. Whenever I have a question, I go to her first and she always gives me 10,000 options on how to answer it or how to solve a problem. Then, I'll get an email or a call later saying, "well, I was thinking more about what we talked about earlier..." and I'll get a few more tips. I love it.
I love that she knows so much about plants and horticulture and is always changing things around in our yard and making it prettier or more peaceful. She's always doing the same for the house. We went from having carpet in the kitchen to hardwood floors in almost every room, hand done by Miss Laurette Ardel Fullerton Cave.
I love how active she is and all the little projects she always has going on or things to do. She does Yoga and bike rides with dad, she always has some party to go to with the ladies in the office, she took a Spanish class before coming to visit me in Spain... I dunno, she's just always living, not waiting around for something to happen and it's wonderful and pushes me to do the same. As I like to say, she's a doer.
I think some of my favorite moments with my family are from during the summers when I was in college. Whit and I would be home all day doing nothing and then mom would come home from work. She'd swoop in the backdoor and sing in an operetic voice, "hellllloooooooo!" Then she'd shimmy all around making a snack or hanging her things up and I'd sing back, "hiiiii moooooooom!" and come into the kitchen and just chat about her day or my day. Then Whit would mosey in at some point and then dad would get home and everyone would constantly be freaking out a little or doing some weird little dance and we'd all be cracking up just acting stupid and glad to be together I think. And it all started with the little mom opera that walked through the door an hour earlier.
Sometimes I'm in a terrible mood or being a little brat, but she doesn't care, she talks to me anyway. She takes any snide remark I make and doesn't say a word about it and continues to be my mom the next day. She used to put little notes in our lunches from time to time just to say she loved us. In fact, she made my lunch all the way through high school! Now that's love.
She loves to hear all about Spain and is always so supportive and thinks everything I'm doing is neat and cool and encourages me to continue on days when I can't understand Spanish at all.
I think a real testament to her is that often, more so in conversations at home than here because people understand more of what I say, someone would tell me a story and my first response would be, "one time, my mom..." and whatever they had said made me think of something she had done or said. And the response I almost always get is a laugh or a "really?" Not to laugh at her or to question her, more so to chuckle at the amount of joy she's getting out of whatever she's done or said or to note that what she's done is quite interesting or that it's something no one would have guessed.
Not many people can really say this, I think (and I know it sounds cheesy), but my mom really is my friend. She's my mom first, but she's a person that I choose to spend time with and enjoy spending time with more than others. Sitting in a lawn chair in my backyard with my mom and dad in the summer just chatting has got to be one of my favorite things to do in the whole world.
I love you Mamá!